Dealing with feelings on the Job…
My feelings at work are just as important as any other feelings in my life…Feelings are feelings…
Going to work, isn’t the highlight of my day, why you may ask from one that rants… We learn from our feelings, dealing with them helps us move on in life, and we grow as a person.
So not learning from our feelings or acknowledging them keeps us stuck in a life and give us health problems as well…Depression, self-doubt, headaches, and many other health problems.
Yes, life is a challenge enough, dealing with a job and learning to deal with feelings on the job can be over the top. At my job things appear to be useless, and dealing with them has become a burden for me. Actually I love my job, and the people I work with accept for a selected few.
Thinking how to deal with my feelings on the job have taken me over the top, I was raised by parents that taught me well, the rules in life should be clear, treat people the way you want to be treated, don’t steal, don’t lie, don’t cheat and above anything else don’t judge…Seriously what is so hard about that?
The intensity of people who refuse to live by simple rules in life, and think the world and everyone around them owes them something truly lead me to believe I need to take care of myself, pointing out the problem, leads to more problems, problems that I don’t need, so just keep quiet and keep my feelings inside.
Not judging, just want the problems to be pointed out, have taken my thoughts and concerns to the higher ups, but only shunned for them. Have actually witness the stealing of tips, actually have been groped by a gay man, actually witnessed his being gone for 3 weeks and getting his job back. Actually don’t speak Spanish and it goes on each and every day… After it has been expressed to you not to do so and they still do it. So you may think I am crazy now, if you’re Gay, Mexican, and your tops in the book.
Settling for what happens just happens, pointing out the problem, may just require someone else to resolve it for you… You may think that I am ranting, but people do have feelings, and they are connected to a message, of fear, or likewise.
Actually I am not greedy; I don’t have much, but would give it to anyone that asked. Caring about people, caring about family, but life has taught me a new set of rules, it is sad that some people only care about themselves. We as people don’t know what the lesson is until we are summoned to show courage, to show our true feelings, to show what God meant us to do…and deal with the feelings at hand.
Trying to find an appropriate way to deal with our feelings, without ranting, ranting is actually a release for me…Standing tall, dealing with my feelings by typing and getting them out. Considering the feelings of others tops my list, but the damaged world we live in, takes me on a different path.
Learning the lesson in life, learning from others, to be stronger, is so important. But life lessons are learned by everyone, life lessons are embedded with life lessons. This helped me to learn the courage to stand on my two feet, to be proud about what we have learned in life, and who I am or what I am as a person. And what is expected of us as humans in the world, and learning how to deal with hurt feelings, and put downs, and everything that goes along with being bullied by a co-worker, who thinks his or hers way of thinking is right.
Finding an appropriate way of dealing with them has been considered ranting, it really isn’t ranting, it is speaking my mind in the moment…If you worked with me I would consider your feelings as well, so why can’t you consider mine.
My feelings are as important at work or elsewhere…
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