Moments in Time

4-12-15

Feeling old but disrespected today or rather a few days ago, it has taken me a few days to get my words together.

First of all I am plenty of years over 18, mother of 3 grown children, 27, 25, and 22.  All of them independent, off on their own accept my son who still lives at home with his girl friend who is expecting twins, and they also have a 9 month old son.

At my age I should be able to decide who I want to talk to, and notice I said talk to… The girlfriend of my son stepped on my toes by contacting the person that I was talking to on Facebook and telling him not to talk to me anymore in a compacted amount of words.

Actually I have known this person my whole life or at least 3/4 of it…and if I want to talk to them it is clearly up to me, not someone trying to be my mother, by the way I have one of those, and she agreed with me in this matter. And other relatives and family did as well.

Tried not to yell at her, but I did, it was over the top but I felt disrespected, and she clearly stepped on my toes.What Business was it of hers anyways?

Actually I have talked about this before, I have quit drinking, and let me tell you I am proud of myself, and it is a personal struggle, but I have will power, and can be around people that drink, and I do have the will power not to drink, So this man drinks, does that mean I will drink? No it doesn’t.