Moments in Time…

04-21-15

Life is seriously a blur… My daughter in law is way the hell out there she is either bi-polar, or something in that family.  At first I wrote her off as hormonal because she is pregnant with twins, and that she has been pregnant since I first met her and he son is only 9 months old, there was only a couple of months of non pregnant, actually I didn’t notice any thing different.

She hasn’t a clue what life is all about, she enjoys reigning over everyone, telling what to do and when, and basically not doing much herself.  When she needs something she does say please, but wholly shit how many times can I be expected to run after her son, cook her some eggs, bring her something to drink etc.  She basically all about herself and herself only.

She doesn’t like my dog, I love all animals, he is ugly, mix between a Boston Terrier and a Crested Chinese, basically he has no hair on his body and a top knot a little on his tail, and truly this dog belongs to me, actually he is sweet, and loving, just as ugly has hell, but I believe when you take an animal into your home you take it for its life, and clearly I am not just giving him away because he is ugly or she doesn’t like him.

She moved into my house over a year ago, and it hasn’t been a pleasant trip, life is about her, and she expects my son, her boyfriend not only to support her while she isn’t working but spend his paycheck on silly things, we have car seats, but she has to have brand new ones.  We have cribs but again she wants new ones, so I am sure by now you are getting a drift of what kind of person she truly is…

Often she reminds me how old I really am, and tells me that often.  When I give advise about her baby, she reminds me that they did that in the old days…I am happily 53 years old, and I did raise my children with not much help from their father, I was a stay at home mother like her, but I was required to clean house, do laundry, cook dinner, etc. while raising three children.  She can’t find herself out of the bed most mornings, and I have already cleaned the house, and washed the dishes, and most important take care of her son.  Okay I know she is pregnant, but does that mean she is handicapped, or disabled.  When I was pregnant with my children in the old days, I worked up until the day they were born, with the oldest, I returned back to work after three weeks, because I was hungry.  She would prefer to set on the couch and be on her computer. 

As soon as my son after a 12 or 13 hour day comes home from work she wants to hand the baby right over to him, she doesn’t give him a chance to wash his hands, or even take off his boots.  From the time he gets home the baby’s care is up to him, he needs dinner, a bath, and shortly put to bed. 

Another thing that truly pisses me off about her is the way she calls her baby names, Like let him cry I don’t want him to be a pussy.  Or he doesn’t do that because he is just lazy. But what really puts my panties in a bunch is when she tells him that his father is a piece of shit, worthless, etc.  my skin crawls.  Just because my son doesn’t hop when she says, he isn’t jumping and so to get back at my son, she uses that innocent baby.

Trying to figure out people hasn’t been my strong point, but seriously she drives me crazy…